What I Learned Writing About Momentum Culture That Made This Book Necessary

Tuesday, April 28, 2026

The data was clean. Engagement was up four points year over year. The values rollout had landed — every leader could name the five. The all-hands had run, the town halls had run, the new recognition platform was live. By every instrument we had built, the culture work was working.

Six months in, I was sitting across from a CEO who had done everything by the playbook. She looked at the dashboard, then looked at me, and asked the question I had started hearing in some form in almost every engagement.

"Why does it still feel the same in the meetings?"

If you have led a culture initiative — or paid for one — you know the version of this moment. The numbers move. The story is defensible. The board is satisfied. And somewhere underneath the dashboard, you have the private suspicion that nothing has actually changed in the room where the work gets done.

I have been on both sides of that table. I have been the leader looking at a clean readout, wondering whether I was supposed to celebrate or worry. And I have been the consultant on the other side, with the deck and the survey results, watching the same look cross the CEO's face I had once worn myself. The look is not skepticism. It is something quieter. It is the gap between what the measurement says is true and what the leader still feels in their gut on the way out of the building.

Most senior leaders eventually stop trusting the dashboard before they can articulate why. That instinct, as it turns out, is correct.

I wrote a book called Momentum Culture. It was the product of years of organizational research, primary and third-party, into what actually distinguishes high-performing cultures from the ones that drift. The research was rigorous. The findings held up. Culture, the data showed, lives at the intersection of two dimensions — Connection and Capability. Strong cultures have both. Weak cultures lack one or the other. The math was clean.

We built the diagnostic. We ran it across organizations. We confirmed what the model predicted. The earlier work — captured in Hope Is Not a Leadership Strategy — had already named the broader pattern: most organizations do not have a leadership strategy, they have a patchwork of good intentions. The culture research sharpened that into structure. Connection × Capability.

What the research could not tell me was where culture is actually built.

You can measure Connection at the org level. You can measure Capability at the org level. You can run the survey, score the index, present the findings to the executive team, and walk out with a clear picture of what the culture is. What you cannot do — what no instrument I have ever built or seen built can do — is point at the place where the culture is being made or unmade in real time. Because the place is not the org. The place is the conversation. And the conversation does not show up in the dashboard until long after it has already done its work.

That is the gap. That is the reason the CEO's question keeps getting asked. The instruments are pointed downstream of where the actual leverage lives.

Organizations do not lose momentum at the culture level. They lose it one leadership conversation at a time.

The org-level work is real. The frameworks are right. But culture, as it is experienced by the human beings inside it, is the running average of every conversation a leader has had with a direct report in the last ninety days. It is the questions that got asked at the end of the status update. It is the commitment that did or did not get a follow-up on the calendar. It is the moment a leader either stepped in to solve or stepped back to coach. The dashboard reports the temperature. The conversations are the weather.

This is not a small distinction. It is the entire point. If you are a senior leader trying to shift a culture, the most expensive mistake you can make is to assume the lever is at the level the survey measures. The lever is one level down. Always. Without exception. The org-level instruments are useful for diagnosis. They are nearly useless as intervention points.

You cannot install a culture from the top through a program. You can only build it from the inside through the rhythm of how leaders speak to the people they are responsible for.

That is what writing Momentum Culture taught me. And it is why that book was not enough.

A division president I worked with had spent two years on what was, by any reasonable standard, a serious culture effort. New values, refreshed competency model, leadership academy for the top hundred, quarterly engagement pulse. The investment was real. The intent was real. The numbers, by the eighteen-month mark, were genuinely better. He pulled me aside after a leadership offsite and said the sentence that has now become familiar to me:

"On paper, this is working. It does not feel like it is working."

We spent the next three months not building anything new. We sat in his direct reports' staff meetings. We listened to his one-on-ones. We pulled samples of how his VPs ran their own staff meetings. The pattern was almost comically consistent. The language at the top of the house was about growth — about building, testing, developing, raising the bar. The language two levels down was about delivery — about hitting, holding, staying on top of, getting through. The values poster was on the wall. The conversations underneath it were a different operating system entirely.

Nothing in the engagement survey would have caught that. The survey was measuring whether people felt good about being there. The conversations were determining whether the place was building anything. Two different questions. Only one of them showed up in the dashboard.

He did not need another initiative. He needed his leaders to change what they asked at the end of a sentence. We started there. The dashboard caught up about ten months later.

Last week I shared the Meeting Diagnostic prompt — a way to feed an AI tool a meeting transcript and ask whether you were leading for maintenance or for momentum.

If that felt theoretical when you read it, this is the week to actually run it. Pick the meeting where the numbers were fine and something still felt off. Paste the transcript. Read what comes back. The point is not to feel exposed. The point is to see, on the page, the gap between the culture your dashboard says you have and the culture your conversations are actually building. That gap is where the work is. The org-level work matters. Do not stop running the surveys. Do not stop measuring.

The dashboard is a real instrument and it tells you real things. Just do not confuse it with the lever. The lever is the conversation.

It is the question at the end of the status update. It is the commitment that gets followed up or does not. It is the moment you choose to coach or to solve. That is where the culture is being built, this week, by you, whether you mean to be building it or not.

You cannot fix that with a program. You can only fix it one conversation at a time. Which is why this book had to be a different kind of book.

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